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This mornings thoughts…

In life, as we grow we make mistakes. Some of us learn from them. And some don’t. I’ve noticed that some people will settle, just for the sake of feeling loved. Love is supposed to be an amazing feeling. The best part of love for me is knowing its  genuwine. However at one time, I wasn’t sure if real love would ever make its way to me. I thought maybe I asked for too much.

After an incident that occurred yesterday, I’ve learned I can be someones biggest threat because of the woman I am, the love I give and display or have displayed in the past. After you have been hurt and done so wrong and still can continue to love with your all and no bitterness…it says a lot. People can mistake no tolerance for bitterness though. One person can only tolerate so much being done to them before a wall has been built. It is up to the next to care enough to break it down and get inside. It’s not ok to break the barriers, feel like you have won, to give that person a reason later on to build a thicker wall with more stability and structure that makes it impossible to break down again.

People make mistakes through patterns. Women, we complain about going through issues with men, but its a pattern or a cycle, we choose the same type of men or we feel we need more than one man to compensate what another lacks. Or we as people tolerate the same crap from others, because we don’t realize or care to recognize the pattern. Men, you complain all the good women are taken or you can’t find one. A pattern as well, maybe you are attracted to the same type of woman, maybe you feel you need more than one woman, whatever the case is, if we’re tired of the same PATTERNS we have to acknowledge them and change them.

Yesterday is gone, we cannot take back anything done or said from yesterday. Today is here, live right and love the one you desire from this day forward. Tomorrow is not promised, don’t regret your today…tomorrow.

Felt the need to express this. Comments are welcome. God bless and have a beautiful day.

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12/10/2011 - Posted by | Sharing My Thoughts, Uncategorized | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

8 Comments »

  1. You hit the nail on the head with that one. God Bless U:)

    Comment by poeticjourney | 12/10/2011 | Reply

    • 😉 Ty. God bless you as well.

      Comment by Christina | 12/10/2011 | Reply

  2. Reblogged this on Inspiredweightloss.

    Comment by sweetopiagirl | 12/10/2011 | Reply

    • Wow, I wasn’t expecting someone to Reblogged this, but thank u. 🙂

      Comment by Christina | 12/10/2011 | Reply

  3. Solid points!!! Mistakes are always made. It’s inevitable. However, it is our reaction to mistakes that makes or breaks the relationship. Both parties must be willing to forgive each other and to compromise where necessary in order to help each other over the hurdles as they arise. I also agree with you on the point about patterns in attraction. Some people follow a vicious cycle in relationships. Great thoughts poured out here girl. Kudos to you!!!

    Comment by BlueGem | 12/11/2011 | Reply

    • Thanks for taking the time to read.

      Comment by Christina | 12/11/2011 | Reply

  4. I love this! Great post!

    Comment by lovelyanjel1 | 12/16/2011 | Reply


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